Saturday, October 01, 2005

Love is a Scary Thought

Ok, so my friends have been insisting that I am in-love. That just gives me the shivers!!!

Come on!!!

I am not saying that I have lost all the abilities to feel anything towards other people, but love? Give me a break! Yeah, I might like this and that particular person, but to claim that I love him is a total absurdity! Don't get me wrong though, the guy is okay. It's just that when people tell you somethings that they say you are feeling, it just makes it worse.

Have you ever wondered where people get the idea that you are in-love even when you're not telling them. I mean, does it really show in your actions? What if you are just naturally sweet and caring? Does that mean that you are in-love with the particular person? And sometimes, other people can mis-interpret your actions, right? Do you actually believe that if a person is in-love, you can see it in their eyes? What if there is something else that inspires that person. What if like me, they are just happy as they are? What if they are just fine being single, working, spending their hard-earned moolah and having the time of their lives?

Do we actually need someone to validate our existense?


I know that a lot of people would argue with this point that I will raise, but I honestly believe that the idea of love and being in-love has always been over-rated. I am not a sociopath. It's just that I feel that we have been using the word "love" very loosely these days.

I am quite sure that what a mother feels toward her children is real love, but to compare the same feeling the we feel towards other people that we have only known for less than like 3 months, that's offending.

Love is a very scary thought. Imagine promising forever with someone? What if one day you've discovered that he has 6 toes, or that he does not enjoy listening to Madonna? The horrors!

We can never be too sure about anything. Maybe we are confusing love with other sensation that we cannot put our fingers on. Maybe our idea of love has been jaded by the movies that we have seen or the books that we have read. Damn that Shakespeare guy!

(Defensive!)

1 Comments:

Blogger Paul said...

Okay. I was the one who accused him of being in-love... Just found out that you're not the "LOVE" type of a biatch! Not really, I guess you are just scared to hell about the thought og being "IN-LOVE"... Whateves... But for sure we love you BITCH! We, your Bratinella Fwends! MWAH!

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